Dre and I are tentatively thinking June 2011, on a Saturday, as a wedding date. It would be ideal, since he'll have school then and a number of guests probably will be, too - not to mention the number of people we'd probably be asking to fly/drive in. So during break would be great. On the downside, it turns out June is the most popular/expensive month and Saturday is the most popular/expensive day, so in that sense, things could get ugly.
Need to call parents and ask them if they're willing to put money in and if so, how much. We REALLY can't afford much on our own. Once a budget is figured out, can start with some very early planning and ideas as to what is reasonable for maximum awesomeness.
Guest lists are going to be a pain in the ass. I'm so afraid I'm going to forget somebody I really want to come or have to cut people out I also really want to come. Both will probably happen. And there is family. Oh, the family.